It's funny to think of dropping out of college, mostly because I'm sure most students at some point or another have fathomed it. Coincidentally, I've already done it.
I started my college career relatively late; I was 21. I spent the years between dancing, running a local company, working odd jobs and was in a time-consuming relationship. A week away from opening my own dance studio, I received a letter of acceptance to CSU, Sacramento. So I closed the studio, cut my losses and started college, mostly because of the sense of obligation to get "educated" from my parents.
Three semesters in and I changed my mind again. Only this time, I wanted to fulfill my dream of going to Los Angeles and become a commercial dancer. In my year-long sabbatical from school I was living my dream; touring with local artists, music videos, reality shows and training under some of the best dancers in the industry. Unfortunately, this lasted only a year because of the guilt and discouragement of my parents to live life as an artist. So back to school I went.
Reflecting on it, I don't regret a thing. If something were to happen where after this semester I would not return to school, i would be back in LA in a heartbeat, this time with more knowledge, maturity and drive.
Although my focus is not only on school, I keep returning because I truly value it, even if it has little relevance to my career choice. The thought is that it well set me apart from the rest one day.
I can in no way say that my life has been a straight path. It's filled with u-turns and pit stops but either way, I know my destination. On a balance between discipline and spontaneity, I'll get there.
This is was brilliantly written! Great job!
ReplyDeleteI really liked your column. You keep and know your priorities.
ReplyDeleteFollow your dreams, Isela, follow your dreams... Most of your classmates are going to college out default - they don't seem to have (or at least stated) any real dreams for the future... You have at least one --- Good luck!
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